I have some sad news that is also a mercy of peace to announce. Our mother, Nancy Charlene Moffitt, took her last breath today, on this 4th of July in 2023 at 12:20 PM. She has been declining for some time due to her battle with Multiple Sclerosis, which has been 3+ decades of debilitating bodily deterioration. So, without muscle control, breathing had become a serious issue. I often felt like I was always crying wolf with the family, saying: “Get there as fast as you can because this is it!” But, she always pulled thru…she was a fighter! This past year, though, has been very, very hard on her. Her throat muscles were weak, so she could only swallow thickened liquids, which contributed to increased weight-loss in recent months, as well as an even more weakened physical state. Pneumonia and a mass in the lung (cancer sucks!) caused these final days of difficult breathing; struggling so badly that we discussed the comfort care measures to help alleviate her struggle to breathe. She gave it her best the last two days with family visiting and me present via video chat calls and although she couldn’t talk, she managed to mouth the words “I love you” to everyone. My sweet little momma! ♥️
Now about that sweet-hearted Mother (momma), Grammie, Aunt Nanc’, with friends all over creation: She was a singer (such a pretty voice), free spirited, hard working, fun-loving and a fighter (little shit). She lived life, partied hard-liked to drink and smoke (Cheers! Bottoms up!) and thought her 5’2″ body could match anyone around. God love her. She believed in prayer, loved collecting angel statues and then would say to Chuck and I: “Please drive safe and always know I am praying for you two.” -Well, momma, you are now officially our guardian angel-
*There will be no celebration of life service. She wanted to be cremated and have her ashes, along with the ashes of Rick (husband) and Misty (doggie) to be spread-out in the Gulf where she loved to camp and fish. We do not yet have a date planned for that because of licensing considerstions and other logistics.
Final thoughts: Chuck says: “Nighty-night, sweet dreams and I love you from here to the moon! And, I will repeat what you always sang to us, momma: “I love you and bushel and a peck & hug around the neck!” And, of course, big huge X&O’S!
Memory Eternal!
Mark Gruttadauria
July 6, 2023, 6:09 pm
Chuck, although I never met her, I can tell she was a special person and I am sorry for your loss my friend.
Peter Thomas
July 6, 2023, 11:14 pm
Chuck,
I am so sorry for your loss. Have solice in know that she is no longer in pain and that she is in a better place where someday you will see her again.
Robbie Jean
July 8, 2023, 3:52 pm
She sounds entirely remarkable. What a loss to you and to all of us who never got a chance to know her. Be patient with yourself if it takes a while to adjust. Virtual hugs to you and your family.
Vanessa Daughtry
July 10, 2023, 3:57 am
She has always been such a bright and beautiful soul. We will miss your beautiful smile, one of a kind sarcasm, and all the love you gave. I’m blessed to have had you in my life. Thank you for all the laughs and love. We all love you so so much Grammy🩵
Frances Porter
July 16, 2023, 7:12 pm
Rest in Peace Nancy!
Sherry Sweeney
July 18, 2023, 4:57 pm
I will always keep you close to my heart such as Chuck and Char and please know that I will be here for them now that you are resting Nancy. I am honored to have gotten to know you as you have been an amazing woman with a heart of gold for the love of your children and family. We know that you are at peace now and you had the time of your life. I’m great full to have been by your side in your final moments and holding Chucky up in the time of need. We all love you Beautiful Lady!