We are so sorry for your loss

NANCY I KNOW I HAVEN’T BEEN IN TOUCH FOR A WHILE, BUT I REMEMBER ALL THE CRAZY THINGS WE USED TO GET INTO AND HAVE A BLAST DOING WHATEVER WE COULD ALL DO!!!
WORDS AREN’T ENOUGH AT THIS TIME, JUST THANKFUL FOR YOU TO NOT BE IN ANYMORE PAIN AND SUFFERING…..MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH JEFF AND THE BOYS AND ESPECIALLY THOSE BEAUTIFUL GRANDCHILDREN YOU HAVE, I KNOW YOU WERE SO THRILLED TO BE A GRANDMOTHER AND I’M SO SORRY IT WASNT LONG ENOUGH!!!
SENDING LOVE AND PRAYERS TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WHO WILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY……

Nancy was a real character and a delightful neighbor. Her neighborhood “pool party” with all the kiddie pools was so much fun for everyone and really helped bring people together for some light entertainment. Always laughing, always happy and so full of life..she will be missed for sure. Our heart goes out to Jeff and the family for their loss. A life cut short.

Dear Nancy
We can not believe you are gone! I know you fought so hard to get well. How we will miss your smile and your whole body laugh, your love for your family, love for life, love of getting together with friends, love of cooking for everyone but especially your love for Jeff and your boys and your 3 beautiful grand babies. We can’t even imagine their pain but know that we will all try to help them.
We hope to see you again up there
Love you and miss you so much!
Bill and Susan

My condolences to jeff and your families .. im thankful for Alexis for introducing us .. Nancy was an amazing woman with an incredible love for her children and grandchildren … She had such a kind soul .. I will miss that smile and her energy !!!!

We were all saddened to hear of Nancys passing. My family would like to wish you our condolences and deepest sympathies. We were the Birchwood family and have so many wonderful memories of growing up there. She will always be in our thoughts.

Our hearts go out to Jeff and family from the first moment we met we hit it off she wanted to learn how to make Rice and beans I will always remember all the crazy times together we had fun until God took you from us we will miss your jello shots my Nancy we will miss you deeply

Jeff and family –
We are so sorry to read this. Nancy was loved by so many and will be missed by all those who were blessed to know her. You are all in our thoughts.

Larry and Karen Cope

We are sorry sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and sending prayers for the family. We are out of the country and won’t be home in time for the celebration of life but will be thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Hey Nan, you will forever be missed and loved. We were truly blessed to have you in our lives. You had the means of lighting up a room with your beautiful smile and laughter. Our memories of you will be etched in our minds forever.

Please accept my sincerest consolences.

Dan and I are sending our condolences to Jeff, the boys and family. Her smile lit up the room and there was nothing more special than to see Jeff looking at Nancy with his eyes full of hearts. She was a light for so many and her light will continue to shine through her sweet grandkids. We love you, Jeff and Nancy!

Nancy was a wonderful neighbor and with a very loving heart. She was always when we had a need; with her smile and a hot dish her jell o shots. She was so proud of her grand children. They brought much happiness to her life. We will miss her. We send our love and prayers to her family.

My prayers and condolences to Nancy’s family and friends.

Nancy was a truly special person and will be missed by all of us. The world lost a bright light, but we will always keep her in our thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss. R.I.P. Nancy. May God give you all peace and comfort during the healing time of grief. Take one moment at a time, each day will be different. There is no time limit on grief. To soon – to young. See you Resurrection Morning.

Nancy was truly a special person and will be missed by all of us. The world lost a bright light, but we will always keep her in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Jeff,
I am saddened to learn of Nancy’s passing. I remember her huge smile, her warmth, her outgoing personality, and her welcoming nature. She had such love for you and your family, and my thoughts are with all of you now. May her memory be a blessing.

Nancy, I just looked at your profile yesterday and said I need to call her this week. I’m sad Ned to read of your passing. You were a true lovely friend. I’m saddened to read of your passing. We lost a great person and friend.

Jeff, Sean, and Ryan. I’m so sorry. Hugs and prayers. Love you❤️

Nancy was one in a million! She was so kind, generous and loved bringing people together! Whenever Nancy had a party you always knew there would be good food and lots of fun! Her smile and laugh lit up the room! We were blessed to know her.
Our hearts go out to Jeff, Ryan and Sean and their families for their loss. I like to think of Nancy up in heaven watching over her grandchildren, her sons and Jeff and sending her love to them. We love and miss you Nancy!

Nancy I will miss you so much!
I looked forward every week to our talk’s & giggling. You were an amazing woman. Beautiful, funny & smart. You literally gave me motivation every week just because I knew I would get to see your smiling face. I feel lost for words… you were my first friend in fla.
I know I will see you in heaven one day
Much love
Alexis

When someone becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure!
Love, fun, laughter and jello shots bring Nancy to mind and what a treasure we have lost!

Dear Nancy,

It was such an honored to have met you and Jeff on my visit for Emmy Menendez party.
You’re passionate and your inspiration possesses endless warmth. The memories you instilled in me with your laughter and all your jokes will never be forgotten.
I laughed so hard when you came to introduce yourself while I was sitting on the motorcycle.
“Hi, I’m Nancy, the crazy one of the blocks who walks around the neighborhood in my pink robe.” “Don’t mind me. You spoke.”

“You must be Dee.” Now finding out you too carry the name Dee. You stinker. Is that why you love that name. 😊
Your Sparkling Sense of Humor you brought on the cruise was definitely contagious.
Oh, I will never forget your Altoid mint tin box, my favorite mint.

Had I known you were leaving us so soon; I would have kept that empty tin box as my souvenir together with the beautiful sunflower card you picked out for me.
The message on the front of the card. A little Extra Sunshine. Yes, that was who you are. A breath of Sunshine. In your own handwriting, “G.F. Love U already” with “thanking me for my Kindness & Smiles! ““Nothing better than a girlfriend.” Your uplifting words of inspiration as I was leaving my Floridian new friends made to face my reality at home.

Nancy, When I got the news of your passing. I was so heartbroken with the news and to realize that when I do return back to highland park. You won’t be there with your favorite pink robe, and it will definitely feel strange not to hear that wonderful laugh of yours.

I picked up the card you gave to me before I left. Sent prayers to you, Jeff and your family and said to myself…
A G.F. is forever. Nancy Dee Rutter gained her beautiful wings and is in heaven with her Sparkling Sense of Humor entertaining all her departed loved ones and giving out mints, joy and laughter as she danced with no pain or suffering.

However, you will be missed here on earth, but your soul, and great memories built in just one week felt as if I knew you forever will always stay alive to those who got the pleasure to meet you.

You fought a very hard battle, but you never gave up on that battle.
You are a beautiful soul with beautiful wings flying high and strong.
A blessing Angel in the skies, I can definitely say a once in a lifetime G.F.
Rest in Peace GF, Nancy Dee Rutter. You will be missed, but never forgotten by all who loved you.

My deepest condolences to Jeff, the boys, grandchildren, family and friends.
Praying for strength during this very difficult time.

Love,
Delcia (Dee) Lee.

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Such a beautiful soul who will never be forgotten. Much love and prayers go out to the family, Jeff, her boys and those grandchildren that she loved so much! Nancy’s sweet spirit was felt by everyone she met. She was one of those special people that stood out in any room. She will be missed by everyone of us that had the good fortune to know her. We will forever be blessed.

Angel & lee from Doggy Styles Pet Salon. Nancy. I loved when you would come in. You were always happy & smiling. So thoughtful & made everyone feel so special & loved. Jeff worshipped you , just as you worshipped him. You were soulmates. Will miss seeing you. And I know you’ll miss us all. But you will be looking over As an Angel to check on your loved ones. You will always be in everyone’s heart. Love you Nancy RIP ❤️

My condolences to the Ritter family. I am grateful we were able to connect on Facebook. Your cousin from New Jersey, Harry McConnell.

Our condolences to The Rutter Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. It was a pleasure to know you and your family. Rest in peace
Jim and Dee Evola

Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss and I’m praying for you and all your family. I truly know the loss and I am here for you.

I really enjoyed Nancy, she was always smiling and sharing either sage advice or a great story. When I first met her, I admired her and her great energy instantly. Blessings and strength to all of Nancy’s family.

jeff ryan sean jax madox adison i was so sorry to hear of your wife your mother your grandmother passing nancy was a special person she was loved by me and by all who knew her nancy is in heaven now god bless her may her soul rest in peace god bless you all my love to you all donna v oliphant grandma oliphant greatgrandma oliphant (;(;(;(;(;(;+++++

Jeff and family, sorry to learn of Nancy’s passing. She was a terrific person and I’ll miss her infectious laugh. We miss all of you as neighbors. Please know all of you are in our prayers.