Thomas C. Wren, 83, passed away on December 5, 2025, in our home, while under Hospice care due to advanced Parkinson’s Disease. As a young Marine in the 1960’s, he was stationed at Camp Lejeune. The contaminated water there was consumed and showered in by all. This created terminal issues for so many servicemen of the time. He became 100% Disabled Service Related thru the VA who supported him thoroughly through his health journey in our home.
Tom was proud to serve his country as a Marine during the Vietnam War. He also served with the Monroe County Sheriff’s Office in Rochester, NY from 1977 to 2000 and retired as a Lt. Deputy Sheriff. He was a member of the Insulators Local #26 Asbestos Workers, CSEA, ARPALER and SOAR. He was a husband, Dad, Papa and friend to many. AND a devoted Buffalo Bills fan. Go Bills!
He is survived by his wife, Beverly Gehring-Wren, his son Spencer Wren, daughter Stacey Tesch (husband Ron), daughter-in-law Stephanie (husband Scott Wren); 4 grandchildren Gregory Wren, Nicholas Tesch, Amanda Tesch and Nicholas Wren, his sister Bonnie Fornabio (husband Mike) plus, many cousins in the US and Canada. He was predeceased by his first wife Paula (Seitz) Wren, son Scott and parents Charles and Myrtle (Cornwell) Wren.
He loved to exercise to always be the best he could be, play golf, Pickleball, Pool Volleyball, Day Trips in FL, walking for miles in the great outdoors, bike, watch a good movie and socialize with family and friends. His smile would light up a room. He made the best multi bean turkey chili. He spoiled Beverly because he loved to vacuum, mop, dust and always helped with dishes after meals. The list could go on…
Tom will be cremated with a request for no viewing or public service. He will be buried in Bushnell National Cemetery in FL with Military Honors on December 30, 2025.
Written by his wife, Beverly.
Tom was my everyday Hero, my everything.
Fellow Officers of ARPALER
December 13, 2025, 10:19 pm
The Association of Rochester Police and Area Law Enforcement Retirees (ARPALER) sends condolences and prayers to the family of Lt. Thomas Wren and we salute him for his service to his country and community. Rest in peace Brother.
Joe Foreman
December 14, 2025, 12:20 am
My sincere condolences to Tommy’s family. I worked with him at MCSO.
Rest in peace.🇺🇸
Stephen Nowak
December 14, 2025, 1:48 am
Tom may you rest in peace. I enjoyed working with you and learned alot from you. Always a Marine. Semper Fi Lt. A Rosary tonight for you!!
Tom. Conroy former RPD
December 15, 2025, 4:35 pm
Very sorry for your loss he was a good guy
John LiPari
December 15, 2025, 7:09 pm
Bev our prayers to you & Your family , You did an amazing job taking care of Tom, you are truly an angel RIP brother you will be missed. The LiPari family
Mike Aquilina MCSO
December 15, 2025, 8:47 pm
So sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a good man.Your family will be in my thoughts.
Ray Battaglia
December 17, 2025, 12:35 am
My condolences to Tom’s wife, children and his , sister and family, and his former coworkers.
Tom was a friend. We would talk about our experiences of being in the service, Tom in the Marines, Me in the U. S. Air Force.
Tom was a nice man. He loved his wife and family very much. Tom was also BIG fan of the Buffalo Bills.
Rest in Eternal Peace my friend.
Barry Ulrop
December 18, 2025, 1:13 am
Long time neighbor. Long time friend. Although we have been apart for many years you will always be missed.
Barry Ulrop
GaryArnone
December 21, 2025, 9:18 pm
Our sincere condolences to the Wren family. Tom was a great man ,friend and fellow co worker.Rest easy Marine !
Gary and Carol Wilcox
December 21, 2025, 9:22 pm
Bev, Gary and I are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. RIP Tom. We didn’t know him, but judging from the obit you wrote, he sounds like he was one of a kind. I am sure he will be greatly missed by you and all of his family. From: Carol and Gary Wilcox
Bill Faber
December 21, 2025, 9:26 pm
So sorry for this to hap[pen. Tom was a man of God and well liked. Worked with him in the 70’s.
Chris
December 21, 2025, 9:34 pm
I am so sorry, Bev.
Matthew Rennie
December 21, 2025, 9:37 pm
Spencer and family, please accept my condolences for the loss of your loved one. Im so very sorry!
God bless you all.
Sandi Malone
December 21, 2025, 9:38 pm
A fellow Marine and Vietnam veteran, Tom will always be remembered. Bev and Tom and Greg and I will always remember our great adventures in Florida, and the closeness of dear friendships. Peace be with you, Tom…you will be missed by all who knew and loved you.
Sandi & Greg Malone
Mary Borders
December 21, 2025, 9:42 pm
My deepest condolences. Prayers for you and your family to find Peace.
Bruce Farrior
December 21, 2025, 10:00 pm
Our prayers are with you and your family. In these time of loss our heart felt condolence goes out to all impacted. We pray for strength and comfort. God is faithful.
Elizabeth Arthur
December 21, 2025, 11:29 pm
Stacey, Spencer, Ron, Gregory, Amanda and Nicholas- please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry that you are in pain.
Beverly- please accept my deepest condolences. Again, I am sorry sorry that you are suffering.
Elizabeth Arthur
Stephanie Walroth Price
December 22, 2025, 12:02 am
Bev,
I am so sorry for your loss. Tom always looked like a happy, good natured guy in your pictures on FB.
Condolences to your family during this hard time.
Debbie Chaves
December 22, 2025, 12:24 am
Dear Bev,
Sincere condolences to you and your family at this most difficult time. Your Mr. Honey and you were a perfect pair. He will be remembered in the heart’s of many. 🙏🙏🙏 RIP Tom and a huge thank you for your service! 🇺🇲
Terry Baker
December 22, 2025, 12:54 am
Sorry to learn of your husband, Tom’s passing.
Dianne Smith
December 25, 2025, 8:36 pm
Bev, I’m sorry for your loss and know there are many wonderful memories of times you shared with Tom. His service and sacrifice for our country will not be forgotten. Your compassionate care is a testimony to the deep love you shared. Sending prayers and caring thoughts,
DJ Stulpin
December 27, 2025, 12:29 am
Tom and I worked together many years together a MCSO. Prayers for his loving family and wife!
Cathy McLaughlin
December 28, 2025, 11:30 am
Rest in peace my friend.
Tony and Georgianna Liguori
January 3, 2026, 4:17 pm
Oh Beverly our hearts go out to you . Knowing you and Tom while in Summertree was a joy. You were both such outgoing and friendly people. Very sad to lose such a great guy. Our memories of him will always be that great smile he had and a friend willing to do anything to help you out when needed.
He will be missed!
We send our love and healing prayers to you. ❤️🙏🏻❤️
Elaine Cullari
March 5, 2026, 5:43 pm
Beverly, I was so deeply saddened to read of Tom’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I always looked forward to speaking to you both every year. You were delightful, kind and loyal customers and I am so grateful to have been on the receiving end of Tom’s kindness.