Alan was an extraordinarily gifted man whose character and innate talents allowed him to create an immediate and lasting impression on everyone he met for the first time. With
his sense of humor, geniality, thoughtfulness and emotional sensitivity coupled with common sense and practicality, he possessed an unerring and uncanny instinct to read
people recognizing their needs, providing friendship and support and compassion when the situation called for it. He enjoyed an instant connection with children and
animals alike and they instinctively loved him back. His spirit of compassion for innocents and the underdog was a guiding force throughout his life and he vigorously
sought to help those in need if he was able.
Funny and charming, those he interacted with couldn’t help but love his company. Generous (often to a fault!), he was appreciative of the smallest gestures accorded him. Intensely loyal, if you were his friend, you became a friend for life. He was one of those rare and beautiful souls that, if you were lucky enough to share in his world, he made you feel safe, comfortable, special and protected. An adventurer of sorts, his extensive travels and life experiences were broad, expansive and varied making him a colorful conversationalist. He was a perfectionist, meticulous in everything he attempted and did. An amateur boxer, a consummate body builder (working out into his early ’70’s until the last of four back surgeries ended that chapter of his life), a creative Master Glazier with a successful architectural glass and metal business in Bergen County, NJ, he retired and opted to spend his life in a warmer climate than his NJ roots afforded him, first locating in Haleiwa on the North Shore of Oahu, HI and then New Port Richey, FL.
He was fiercely protective of those he cared for and was a staunch advocate of what he
called “the doctrine of Prevent-Defense” often quoting the age-old proverb, “…hope for the best but prepare for the worst.” He lived his entire adult life governed by that mantra.
Alan loved a great many things, the list too long to tally but at the top of his favorites was his beloved rescue kitty, Loki ke Aloha who now misses her partner dearly. Having raised dogs throughout his life, sharing space with a feline was a new experience for him but one that he cherished greatly often referring to her as “his saving grace!” He especially loved Bushmill”s 10, Korbel champagne and fine cabernets. His favorite literary characters were Mitch Rapp and Jack Reacher. Harleys ranked high and every so often he took out the pics of his old bikes, remembering the “riding adventures” in his younger days. His musical taste was eclectic ranging from smooth jazz to Pavarotti and Friends, Bocelli to Janis Joplin, the Manhattan Transfer, the Eagles, Sara Brightman to
the music of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s The Phantom of the Opera, a most favorite score.
Family and best friends meant a great deal to Alan and he loved and cherished every relationship. Besides being the most beloved husband of Angel (Angela D. Sevier), he was the caring father of Justin Sean; grandfather of Justin (Junior as Alan called him); brother to Gary (Lois) and Robert; was friend to his best buddy Tony I., and to his “Is the coffee shop open?” good friend Rich M.
He loved his country and was a true patriot. Possessing a strong belief in the ideals of honor, integrity, freedom and courage, he volunteered and enlisted in the US Army in 1967. Sent to Germany, he then volunteered to go to Viet Nam and was there during the TET Offensive. Awarded several medals during his service stint, he was honorably discharged in 1968 bearing both physical and mental scars that plagued him throughout his life on a daily basis and from which he never fully recovered.
On June 1st, 2022, Alan Franklin See passed away. Alan was fond of and often quoted the following line from Shakespeare’s Hamlet (5.2.302-03) when he found it to be apropos. Now it embodies the sentiment and wish of those who loved him and mourn his passing: “…Good night sweet prince/And thoughts of angels sing thee to thy rest…
Requiescet in Pace Alan did not want a traditional funeral nor any type of funeral service. Respecting his wishes, cremation will take place and a celebration of his life will be held in the future.
Tony I
June 12, 2022, 10:55 am
A soul you were Blessed to know and honored to call your friend. The days are longer now without our daily conversations, always laughing, and changing the world. You were my brother from another mother. Until we meet again, you will be missed everyday “Uncle Al”. Love you, bro!
Deb/Tony I
June 12, 2022, 11:12 am
You may be gone, but you will live on forever in our hearts and memories…and the memories are many. I know you are watching over Angel, and will be her strength now. We are here for her too. No more pain. You left behind broken hearts, but we know you are at peace now. We talk to you everyday, laughing and crying about our times together. Until we meet again. We love you and miss you so much. 💔💔
Maureen Doherty
June 12, 2022, 3:02 pm
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you as you as you continue your journey through this life without your beloved husband, partner, and best friend. Alan will be missed by so many.
Stacey Conner
June 12, 2022, 4:20 pm
Dear Angela,
I am so sorry for your loss. Alan will be deeply missed. I love him and you so much.
Penny Seibert
June 12, 2022, 4:58 pm
I was both grieved and saddened to hear of Alan’s passing.. He was truly someone that had such charm, warmth , concern and for others. I feel very fortunate to have known him. My warmest thoughts and sincere sympathy to you and the family..
Penny Seibert
Gary
June 12, 2022, 10:20 pm
What a nice tribute to Al. I will miss him very much, as I know you will too.
Robert See
June 14, 2022, 2:39 pm
I was never any good at expressing my feelings into words but I will try my best. I miss the times we shared together like driving a 100 miles one way just to get pizza when we were younger, hanging out on the Jersey shore boardwalk, sharing meals with him and his wife, enjoying a barbecue together and making him laugh along with many other times too numerous to mention. But most of all, I will miss my brother. I do not know if one exists but if so, I hope he is in a better place. I love you Al.
Robert See
Dr. Lucille D. DeMartino
June 15, 2022, 10:48 am
Dear Angel…Amazing beautiful loving tribute!!
My heart hurts for you immensely. Alan was a true friend….never a time that he did not offer to help in any fashion, large or small. In all his conversations with me as not only his friend but his Chiropractor he was forthright and honest in relating his experiences….both his happy highs and extreme lows. We could talk for hours. He had a gift of true gab!!! ….a tremendous warm spirit!
He was funny with a contagious laugh and smile!!!
He had a passion to make things better always and not just for himself! He played with my cats over the years with true warmth and affection. He cried with me, never a hard exterior as Alan was humble and vulnerable.
I admired those qualities!!
Angel, I knew Alan before he knew you! I was thrilled to meet you as you became his brightest light!!
I know I will see you again Alan and we will laugh and talk for hours!!
Missing you in my heart…go find my kitties who are waiting for me….hug and cuddle them with that love you carry inside!!
Karen Eisenhardt Thomas
July 4, 2022, 4:17 pm
Knew him from way back when, my condolences🙏