Jim Van Valin passed away On Saturday September 28th, 2024. He is preceded in death by his parents Bob and Vivian Van Valin, and his sister Dani Lynn. He is survived by his beloved wife Karen, his two sons Christopher and Steven, as well as brothers Bobby, Tommy and sister Jo Anne.
Jim was a remarkable husband, father, brother, uncle, cousin and friend to many. His childhood was filled with boyhood adventures in the big city with his older brother Tommy. They enjoyed building tree forts, underground forts, exploring the Bronx Zoo and playing Manhunt with friends.
In the 1970s, Jim’s family moved to Florida to escape the hustle and bustle of city life. Bob, a retired police officer, wanted to raise his children in the Sunshine State. Unfortunately, shortly after the move, Dani Lynn, Jim’s beloved older sister, died of leukemia. This tragic loss instilled in Jim and his siblings a much deeper understanding of family, and more importantly, what it takes to maintain one. Jim’s strong will and open heart crystalized the family’s efforts to carry that love on to future generations.
After the passing of his parents, Jim stepped up in the family hierarchy. His compassion, wisdom, intolerance for nonsense, problem-solving skills, and ability to connect with others made him a natural leader. He excelled at keeping the family united, fostering growth, and hosting the big Van Valin parties. He made everyone feel loved, valued, and included. He had a remarkable ability to deeply connect with people and find common ground to work toward a shared purpose or goal. For the family, that purpose was togetherness. Whether in the Bronx or in Florida, one thing remained constant; the Van Valin house was never empty. It was the gathering place for family and friends. This spirit of inclusion, togetherness, and love were core values of the home and the Van Valin family.
When Jim met Karen, all enjoyed watching their special love story unfold. There has always been a powerful light in him, but with Karen, it grew even brighter. It was clear that he had found his soulmate, the absolute love of his life. His passing will not break this eternal bond; his love for Karen will transcend heaven and reach out to her daily. Their love story only grew stronger with the birth of their sons, Chris and Steven. Jimmy used to say that Chris, his forever child, was a reminder for all of us to appreciate the little things in life. To laugh at silly things and find joy in moments that most of us take for granted. Steven, the youngest, learned very early to be the “big, little brother.” Jim and Karen raised Steven to be understanding, compassionate and caring. They watched Steven grow from an adventurous boy into a successful young man, and often shared how proud they were when they witnessed the level of love, patience and compassion Steven showed towards Chris.
Jim also treated his nephews, nieces, their children, and their spouses as if they were his own, asking questions, offering support and encouraging them to pursue their dreams. Friends were offered the same warm embrace. Many of his friendships were established in high school and endured a lifetime. He loved telling and retelling stories of their shared adventures. While loving his family and friends was a given, so was his desire to help strangers.
Filling the cups of those in need with love and compassion was a common practice for Jim and Karen. His heart always guided them, and it was evident in their actions. With a big heart. unwavering faith and Karen by his side, he prioritized giving back to the community and humbly helping others. This was evident in the outpouring of love and messages shared with the family shortly after his passing.
Jim was a connector and facilitator in business as well. Jim charted a unique and memorable path during his nearly 30 years at Humana. Coming into the organization on the heels of his high school friends Lou Sessa and Tony Carfora, Jim set out to lead and succeed right away. His drive, combined with his personality, vision and voice made it clear to all within earshot that he was destined for great things. The roles and titles escalated quickly, as leaders correctly recognized the influence and respect he commanded, putting him in position to positively impact as many associates as possible. He did so by honing a remarkable ability to listen, absorb, articulate and empower, in virtually any setting. He could lead up or down the chain of command with confidence, while at the same time making every associate feel seen and valued. For Jim, it was always about the people, our people. At any given moment that could mean associates, members or partners. It was his hallmark and gift to so many.
Over time, Jim’s approach and guidance became one of the central pillars of a collective and renowned culture that began with his mentor and dear friend Fred Wheeler. These men would go on to establish a foundational mindset and instill a habit of achievement that defined MarketPoint and permeated the organization. They also would be the first to tell anyone who listened that their accomplishments simply reflected the hard work and character of all those who worked for, around, and with them. Perfect Service indeed.
As Jim took the helm of MarketPoint and surrounded himself with leaders who shared his compassion and servant leadership style, the growth and achievements were frequent and numerous. Bucking tradition, there seemed to always be room for another seat at the table. Jim’s inclusive approach brought leaders from disparate parts of the organization into the fold and his instincts paid off frequently as he built trust, knowledge and ensured collaboration.
Jim was instrumental in guiding the organization as it sought new avenues to support the communities Humana served and to grow the business. He did so with an unwavering commitment of support to the frontline leaders in the field. He engaged key assets within HR, Training and Compliance to develop and instill tools, resources and methodologies designed not to sell more, but to build character and to care more. Lead from the Front, Situational Leadership and Connecting the Dots were catchy themes, but the goal was always the same; empower the people and give them a track to succeed. If you listen closely, you can hear the echo’s; “Do the right thing, in the right way, and for the right reasons”.
In closing, Jimmy’s legacy is one of love, faith, compassion, togetherness,
forgiveness, and respect, and his impact on this world was profound. We are thankful for the teachings God has shown us through Jimmy. We pray that if Jimmy ever touched your life, you will carry on his legacy of loving
unconditionally and moving through this life with friends and family as one.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Red Apple, The Rope Center, or Charley’s Rainbow.
The Chapel
Debra Bagulho
October 1, 2024, 9:41 pm
Our hearts are broken over the loss of such a wonderful man. Sending healing prayers and comfort to all his family during such a terrible time.
Tammey
October 1, 2024, 9:48 pm
My heart breaks over the loss of our beloved Jimmy. Loved by his family and his legion of friends and coworkers, the idea of living in this world without this beautiful man is beyond comprehension. Jim set the standard for what it means to be a family man, a brother, a coworker, a LEADER and most of all a friend. He will ALWAYS be in my life and I cherish all of the memories we made together.
Jim loved with every fiber of his being and I will forever love him the same way.
Much love to Karen, Christopher and Steven and all of Jim’s family.
melissa salerno
October 2, 2024, 1:15 pm
Karen, Chris, and Steven, and all the Van Valin and Mocsari Families, please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Jim. From all accounts, and from our times together, Jim was a great man who leaves a legacy, of love, compassion, faith, and leadership. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Salerno-Fox Family
Richard Parizo
October 2, 2024, 7:19 pm
Jimmie you and I graduated high school the same year! What a great time high school was! Even though you used to pick on me in high school I always liked you. I hadn’t seen you in years then while working at First Florida Bank I met your beautiful wife Karen and through her connected with you again. I am so saddened by your passing. I know that you are in no pain and completely healed! I also know that we will see each other again. I ask and pray that God provides peace and comfort to your families and to everyone that knew you.
Susan J Schoen
October 2, 2024, 11:39 pm
Jim was the best! Loved talking sports with him (even though we were always routing for the other team LOL). He always made things right with the world. He will be missed by so many. Love and peace to you Karen, Chris and Steven.
Rita Jennings
October 3, 2024, 1:35 pm
Simply the best. A man of love, compassion and values, shared by his parents and siblings. I’ve know Jim since he was 8 years old.. he was just as kind and sweet then. My heart breaks for everyone in his family especially Karen, Chris and Steven. I know Jim was reunited with his Mom, Dad and sister Dani Lynn. We love you all forever.
Cheri Ruebel
October 4, 2024, 12:24 pm
Dear Jim,
Thank you for being the most wonderful loving husband to my cousin Karen and father to Christopher and Steven! Thank you for being a man of honor, integrity, and good character! Thank you for all the laughter, love, and great meals; you were an awesome cook. We are all going to miss you so very much! God bless you always.
Love,
Cheri
Jeannie (Coburn) Sampson
October 4, 2024, 2:51 pm
My deepest sympathies to the family. I went to high school with Jimmy and have nothing but fond memories of him. Jimmy had a heart of gold and warm soul. He was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He will be missed by many.
Sending prayers and love to his family and friends during this difficult time.
Nila Pisciotto Benito
October 4, 2024, 4:38 pm
Jim was a bright shining light to everyone he met. My love and prayers go out to Karen, Chris, and Stephen. Jim loved all of you so very much. I’m so grateful to have experienced Jim’s kindness, joy, compassion, and generosity. If I can help in anyway, just let me know. May he rest in peace. He was so loved. Thankful that I knew this beautiful soul.
Michael Corallo
October 7, 2024, 1:37 am
Our families thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jim was a great man who impacted so many. He is missed!
Pamela Dimond
October 8, 2024, 7:41 pm
We are thinking of you all during this difficult time . We are sending prayers to your Family our deepest sympathies.
Karen Jarboe
October 9, 2024, 12:53 pm
What a beautiful tribute to Jim, a true soul man gone far too soon. He shared his heart so easily, so beautifully with so many. Sending all my love to Karen, his sons, and all his family and friends. I’m certain there’s a special place in heaven for him and because of the way he touched our earthly lives, we know what we need to do to get there too. Eternal rest grant unto him, oh Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.
Evelyn Dodd
October 9, 2024, 4:21 pm
One of Jimmy’s last messages relating to his illness penetrated clear through to my soul. As his aging cousin who had become shaken with the realization that time was running short, his counsel was in essence, “Stop counting the days and live every moment in gratitude and think only of how you can make each day better for someone else!” Jimmy, I was there when you were born – such a quiet, peaceful baby who grew with gentleness and wisdom, always smiling and loving. You have given me a whole new approach to the meaning of LIFE. We were born to help, heal and be there for OTHERS! Nothing can destroy LOVE. You are with God now and still with us. Hopefully, we will all share the future together. Love, as always….Evie
Michael Frost
October 9, 2024, 4:44 pm
I was so saddened hearing about the departure of Jimmy V, one of the finest bosses I’ve had. I don’t know what to say other than you were an inspirational & good hearted man that impacted countless peoples lives. You are & will be missed by many Jimmy.
Gary Bonanno
October 9, 2024, 10:14 pm
Missing my boy, Jimmy V. Even with almost 3000 miles between us, he took the time to rekindle our grammar school friendship. Jimmy was a humble and generous man. He gave me an example to strive for. The Lord put him on this earth with a purpose. And He gave Jim the gifts of humility and generosity and said, “Go and do great things.” And Jim took it to heart and did GREAT things. This world is a little poorer without Jimmy, but Heaven is a better place with him. His spirit will live in my heart until I draw my last breath. Jim, until we are together again!
Lindsay Faldo
October 13, 2024, 6:37 pm
Jim,
You will be forever missed by so many people. You had a heart of gold and were loved by everyone in your life. I will miss you and our friendship over the past 40 years. You were one of the most supportive people in my life, no matter what and no matter where. Thank you isn’t enough to say to a friend like you. See you on the other side Jim. I am sure if you can have a party there, you will be the guy who puts it on. Big heavenly hug to you. Keep a watch over all of us, we still need you. Love your friend, Lindz
Patrick OToole
October 15, 2024, 8:06 pm
My heart is both heavy, yet filled with love as I and countless others remember Jimmy. He was a larger than life human that left an indelible mark on all that he touched. Beyond all our collective business accomplishments, what resonates the most with me about Jim was his unwavering love of his fellow man and the sheer goodness of his spirit. He was a role model to so many and the greatest friend anyone could ask for. Losing Jim too soon is a profound loss for so many, yet we will find comfort in the memories of Jim and the way he lived his life.
Dan Maltese
October 16, 2024, 7:17 pm
This is the first forum I’ve expressed the sense of loss…and gratitude I have for Jim. We’re all better knowing Jim. We’re a better spouse, friend, sibling, leader. Fill in the blank. He gave us that by simply being his authentic self with an extraordinary capacity to love and connect. I’ve had a front row seat for 22 years to witness his business savvy, the loyalty he build with others, his generosity of time and money, his mentorship, his unique insights. Jim had the gift of drawing out the best in people. He was my friend, brother, leader, antagonist and mentor wrapped in one. His passing is a loss with no calculation. If we were able to ask Jim how to best honor his legacy, he would certainly say by paying forward the lessons we learned from him to help others. That we will do. Jim, I love you. Rest my brother, for when we meet next time, we will celebrate you all over again.
Tiffany Hoppe
October 31, 2024, 4:30 pm
I count having known and worked under Jim’s leadership as one of the highlights of my time thus far at Humana. He was such a passionate and genuine leader with integrity and obvious care for his team. The culture in MarketPoint was unique under his care and thrived as a family-thanks in large part to his focus on and care for his own family. His kindness towards me and support of my professional development will never be forgotten. Deepest condolences and prayers for strength to his family and all who loved him. Thank you Jim-you are sincerely missed.
Robin Reece - Hlava
November 8, 2024, 4:59 am
What a beautiful and perfect tribute. Jim had a way of making everyone that he met feel seen and valued. He was an inspirational leader and made all of us better people just by being around him. My last conversation with him was my last day at Humana, on April 30, 2021. He called me, even though he was struggling with health issues. He said the kindest, most thoughtful words of encouragement and thanks for my years of service. It meant the world to me to receive his call. He was genuine and we all respected him so much. He will be missed and remembered by so many. Rest In Peace Jimmy V.
Suzanne & John Sarabalis
November 10, 2024, 8:42 pm
Dear Karen, Christopher, and Steven,
We were very saddened to hear of the passing of your dear Husband and Dad. Reading some of the above memorials helped to resurface and solidify the wonderful memories we hold so dear of Jim on the soccer field with the boys. He truly was a leader, a unifier, a problem solver, and an optimist. He always had time for others and pleasurably engaged in conversations with all. We know he made an indelible mark on others, as he has made on us. Although our shared experiences did not extend far beyond the soccer field, his love and devotion for you were undeniable. May God be with you in this time of sorrow and may you find solace in the vast wealth of precious memories.
Sincerely,
Suzanne & John Sarabalis
Lonzie Burgess
November 11, 2024, 5:37 pm
I just heard about Jim’s passing. He was a leaders leader and help made Humana MarketPoint what it is today! I vividly remember the last time I spent time with Jim in Puerto Rico at Humana’s MarketPoint President’s Club. His leadership, vision and passion will be missed!