Thomas Kelly was born on January 7, 1964 in Galway, Ireland. The family moved to Ossining, NY when he was an infant. Tom attended St. Augustine School and Ossining High School, graduating in 1982. He graduated from Westchester Community College in 1984.
Tom enjoyed spending time with his family, listening to music, and playing the bass and guitar. He possessed an encyclopedic knowledge of heavy metal. Tom also loved horror and monster media and instilled a deep love of Godzilla and King Kong into his children. Tom worked for many years at Rocky’s Deli in Millwood, NY, before moving to Florida in 2010.
What made Tom special wasn’t just what he loved, but how he loved. He kept things positive no matter the circumstance. He had a way of softening the edges, and reminding everyone that life is better when you choose grace. He loved his family deeply, cherished his cousins, and always chose kindness. Music was his joy, and he shared that joy generously. Even in difficult moments, Tom kept things positive and saw the good in people. His spirit was gentle, loyal, and full of grace.
He passed away August 7, 2026. Tom is predeceased by his grandparents, his parents Ann and Brian Kelly, and his brother Mark Kelly. He is survived by his partner Thelma Christine Crawford, his sons Aaron and Logan Kelly, and his brother Keith Kelly. He will be missed by his enormous family and many friends.
Thomas B. Dobies Funeral Home - Congress Chapel
Thomas B. Dobies Funeral Home - Congress Chapel
Marian Quirke
August 11, 2026, 8:18 pm
Michael, Marian and John are sending sincere condolences to Aaron, Logan Chris. Keith, family and many friends. We will miss his gentle ways and his frequent messages checking in on his Irish family. May Tom rest in heaven with Mom, Dad and Mark 🙏
Kathy Faucett
August 11, 2026, 8:33 pm
I’m so sorry to hear Tom passed. He was the sweetest man. I valued his friendship dearly. Sending prayers of peace and comfort to his family.
Rest in Heaven Tom
Mary Corda
August 11, 2026, 9:30 pm
Rest easy, Tom. You fought long and hard. You will always be remembered for your kindness and humor. My sincerest condolences to Thelma, and all your family and loved ones. You are in my prayers.
David Hopper
August 11, 2026, 10:40 pm
God bless you Tom! You’ll be missed!
Marilyn Dorr
August 11, 2026, 11:23 pm
So sorry for Logan and Aaron on loosing your dad. I’m a friend of your mother in paint class. My prayers are with you. Take care of yourself.
Stephen Fiore
August 12, 2026, 1:03 am
You will never be forgotten brother. You were my friend.
John Bellew
August 13, 2026, 4:15 pm
Tom was one of the kindest people that I have ever known, and one of my truest friends. I will always remember the times that we shared and he will be missed more than I can say. Rest in peace my friend.
Love from your cousin Margaret (Kelly) and Eddie Gabriel, Cork.
August 13, 2026, 5:47 pm
Sincere sympathies to Aaron, Logan, Chris, Keith and all of Tom’s extended family and friends on his sad passing. May he rest in peace.
” May the Road Rise to Meet You
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
The rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of his holy hand”.
Marian Quirke
August 16, 2026, 10:37 am
Condolences to Tom’s family and many friends on his sad passing. May he rest in the peace of heaven. 🙏
Tom will be sadly missed in our lives.
From the Kelly family in Castlelambert, Athenry, Co. Galway
Anne Zimmerman
August 16, 2026, 6:29 pm
May you Rest In Peace Tom.You we’re truly one of a kind! My heartfelt condolences to your family 🙏
Kevin Kelly
August 16, 2026, 10:56 pm
My deepest condolences to Chrissy, Aaron, Logan, and Keith. I just learned today of Tom’s passing and the news left me very sad. I remember him as a small child in Ossining when I was a young adult. In my later years, Tom always called me a few times a year, which I appreciated very much. It’s haunting when someone you knew as a small child passes.
May you rest in peace, Tom. I am praying for you.
Vincent and Maura Kelly
August 17, 2026, 8:30 am
Deepest condolences to Aaron, Logan, Chris, Keith and extended family and friends on Tom’s sad passing. I have many fond memories of Tom when he was visiting Castlelambert as a child. May he rest in peace.
Ellen Morris
August 17, 2026, 1:27 pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our families knew each other growing up in Ossining and at St Augustine. Tom was sweet and funny and everyone loved him over at Rocky’s deli too. May you rest in heavenly peace Tom. Our deepest condolences and 🙏 prayers.
Morris Family